Identical or fraternal? A little triplet genetics!

One of the most common questions I get asked about the girls is if they are all identical. Our typical reply is that Harper (Baby A) and Emerie (Baby B) are identical, because they shared a placenta, and that Reagan (Baby C) might be, because she had her own placenta but looks awfully similar to her sisters.

To that end, we decided to do DNA chromosome testing to find the real answer, are the Doublets really all identical, or is Reagan fraternal to her sisters?

A little background from my research on this topic.  Many people ask me if multiples run in our families- this actually doesn’t matter unless the girls are fraternal. Why? Fraternal multiples involve more than one egg being fertilized by more than one sperm, a trait that can be passed down on the mother’s side of the family.  Identicals, on the other hand, start from one egg splitting and in my case, that one egg split once, or twice.  One fertilized egg splitting occurs because of the mother and is often called “biological luck.”

The DNA test, ordered online, involves cheek swabs for each baby.  We did this a couple weeks ago and sent them back for lab testing.  Each baby is swabbed twice to ensure the samples are usable and correct.  The results display two lines of DNA for each baby, one line from me and one from Craig. Twenty-four genetic markers (called loci’s) are analyzed, and if the results depict the same numbers, then they are officially identical triplets. More info is available on BioGene’s website at https://dna-paternity-testing.com/twin-zygosity-test/.

So the answer on the report?  Drumroll please….with 99.9999999% accuracy, the girls are monozygosity (MZ) triplets. Monozygosity is a fancy term for identical, meaning Reagan is, in fact, identical to Harper and Emerie!  How cool is that?

According to my MFM (maternal fetal medicine) doctor, with two placentas and three separate sacs in utero, we had about a 30% chance that the girls would turn out identical. The odds that spontaneous triplets would turn out to be identical? There are a lot of differing statistics online for that, anything from 1 in a million to 1 in 200 million.

A few things I’ve learned regarding identicals:

Do identical babies have the same fingerprints? The short answer, no. Fingerprints develop around the fifth month in pregnancy, and are influenced by several factors, including amniotic fluid and sacs, bone growth, and womb pressure. So in the case of my girls, Emerie was shoved in the corner by Harper, meaning her fingerprints will be different, although probably similar to her sisters who had a bit more space.

Are there other distinguishable differences? Yes, even if they are slight and not easily noticeable.  One difference is the eye irises. While all the girls have blue eyes, their irises may have slightly different patterns.

Why do identical triplets have physical differences if they have the same DNA? This question is pretty easy- while DNA matches on a cellular level, both nature and nurture cause varying changes as the girls grow. Nature (genetics) and nurture (environment) both have “skin” in the game (haha!).

One article explained it more clearly for me, using pie : “Think of it this way–when I bake an apple pie, it turns out a little different each time. The shapes of the apple pieces are never quite the same. Maybe the stove is a little hotter, or I add slightly more sugar. Maybe a distraction like the phone ringing keeps me from taking it out of the oven exactly when I planned. I use the same set of instructions every time. But each pie is still unique because differences in the environment make it is impossible for me to follow the instructions in exactly the same way. So identical twins are kind of like two pies made from the same recipe. They are more similar than pies made from different recipes, say apple and blueberry. But if you look closely, they are still not exactly the same. They will always have some physical differences due to differences in their environment (https://genetics.thetech.org/ask/ask142).”

So what other differences can happen? Heights and weights will vary, because it depends on how much one is eating or exercising in their environment. For example, Emerie is technically identical to her sisters, but was born over a pound smaller, due to a smaller umbilical cord connection than Harper. Does that mean they aren’t identical? No, it is just a nature difference.

Harper and Emerie both have strawberry hemangiomas (in different places), but that doesn’t mean they aren’t identical. Hemangiomas are a collection of blood vessels close to the skin’s surface that are considered a birthmark and typically fade as the child gets older.  That is a nature change that occurred after birth.

How do we tell them apart? When we were just home from the hospital, we put teal nail polish on one of Reagan’s fingers and pink on one of Harper’s.  We’ve gotten lazy on that and haven’t kept up with that method; mostly we use the girls colors (Harper: pink; Emerie: purple; Reagan: teal) in their day-to-day outfits to instantly know who is who. In addition, their laughs and mannerisms are different. And the strawberry hemangiomas ensure we never permanently confuse who is who.

All in all, it is really exciting to have the official answer! As the girls grow, they seem to all look more alike, especially Harper and Reagan.  At some point Emerie will catch up with her sisters on weight and then it’ll be a bit more difficult.  It is very exciting to have spontaneous, identical triplet girls, and we are enjoying the adventure!

Starting to Roll

Welp, we officially have a roller. Not an accidental roll either like in June. Craig put Reagan down on the floor for tummy time and off she went! She immediately rolled a couple times and I caught part of it on camera! Eeek!

When Harper went down for tummy time she refused to try to roll. Instead she scooted with her legs, on her belly, around the mat. That’s a little too close to crawling if you ask me…

Emerie’s neck muscles are getting a lot stronger and she’s not quite so “beast mode” during tummy time.

I put Reagan and Harper in sleepers are little too similar, and we were having a heck of a time telling them apart! But they were so cute…outfits all the way from Reine in England!

The girls are FINALLY settling down for the four month shots; but are again cranky from the 80 degree heat that makes our house boil. Thank goodness for baby tank tops!

More Giggles and…Shots?

I didn’t want Emerie to feel left out… she giggled just after I posted yesterday’s blog. She’s also started talking to us constantly, what Harper and Reagan did last week.

I’ve noticed the girls only giggle when they are in diapers, and mostly on the changing table. It makes me think they are starting to be ticklish and that makes them laugh. Or my face and hair are somehow very silly to them! They also get the hiccups each time, so their diaphragms aren’t quite ready for it but that’ll get better. But seriously it is cute. I’m excited for this development phase!

We also had four month shots yesterday, which we’re told are one of the worst shot sets. Not surprisingly there were tears and fussiness after, but we made it through and the doctor helped us cuddle and feed them. Everyone is in good percentiles, and Reagan is actually 1/4″ taller then Harper now!

Last night was a bit rough with a lot of crankiness and overall today went pretty well with Tylenol for their mild fevers. It was also an excuse to put them in cute summer clothing, because the house was warm today, and to have more baby snuggles! We will certainly continue to do doctor checkups on Fridays, especially when I go back to work, so we have the weekend to get everyone back to their normal, happy selves.

Not Every Day is Sunshine and Rainbows

Don’t worry, only the start of this blog is slightly bleh. The end is amazing!!

Not everyday is sunshine and roses (today was hoodie weather!). I seem to post more when we hit a developmental milestone or the girls are looking super spiffy. The reality is, we definitely have our stress moments and hours of multiple screaming, inconsolable babies. It’s just not all the time, thank goodness.

The last few nights were one of those times you need three more hands on your body. Both Harper and Emerie were practically inconsolable for over an hour at bedtime on Tuesday and last night was a similar fussiness. Reagan was fussy but manageable.

We keep reminding ourselves that the girls are in another developmental jump and it’s making them uber cranky. They are definitely more interested in the world and looking around, when they aren’t shrieking. The past couple of days have been significantly less intake during feeding time, which is a little funny since I just ordered a bunch a bigger (8oz) Dr. Brown bottles. Guess they weren’t ready for that yet!

On a happier and less complaining note…last Friday Reagan and Monday for Harper, giggled!! Both were full on baby giggles, and will make your ovaries churn! Here’s Reagan giggling at Daddy.

And here is Harper giggling!

Emerie did a crazy giggle yesterday, one similar to the sneaky giggles in the movies, but she hasn’t fully done it yet. I’m sure it’s right around the corner…after four month shots…

15 Weeks!

Last visit to Double Cuddles Harper was up to 11lb 13oz, Reagan was 11lb 6oz, and Emerie 10lb 3oz! They are getting big!

This week’s milestone appears to be that the girls have discovered they can chew on their hands and are now constantly doing so. They are also smiling even more! Emerie has started talking like her sisters and now all are much more vocal in baby speak.

Play mat time is actually enjoyable now, which is a change! Harper and Reagan were entertained the entire time I fed Emerie, almost giggling and baby talking. Reagan even fell asleep after a while from all the fun.

For the first time Emerie enjoyed play time and stayed on the mat without fussing for about 20 minutes! That’s definitely progress, especially with all her fussiness later in the day.

We took the girls on a hike on Sunday, since we rarely have 80 degree, beautiful sunny days (especially this summer!), and I think the high afternoon sun might have been a bit much for them, altho they were pretty good sports about it. And we managed to pack the pups in the back of my car with them!

We were lucky enough timing wise to catch part of the airshow once we hit the end of the trail, and see some of the jet formations in the distance over Anchorage. I can’t wait until the girls are big enough to enjoy an airshow!

One more milestone, not for the babies but for me! I finally hit 2000 ml (roughly 67 oz) of milk production in a single day. Has taken me a LONG time to finally reach that!