Now that we are a month and a half past the Christmas season, I am finally getting around to writing a blog about it off all my random notes over the past three months. As usual Christmas season went by in a typical blur, filled with overly cold temperatures and the normal Alaskan darkness, Christmas lights and decorations, lots of events and activities and goodies to shove into a short amount of time, and the usual terrible family chest cough.

If you overlook the fact that our household had a detrimental cough for probably six weeks, rotating through family members who also enjoyed ear infections…it was a pretty good holiday season. I tried to find a few random events to attend this year, something new for the girls to enjoy. With that in mind, I found an afternoon tea with Mrs. Clause event out in Wasilla; and we trekked out there during a super windstorm and subzero temperatures for it. You can’t really tell from the photos, but all three are sporting sweater dresses with arctic animals on them, including an arctic seal! To Harper’s delight, a “seal dress” really does exist! The whole thing was very cute, in a decorated greenhouse, and our host’s adorable daughters served the tea and treats and helped the girls try on all types of jewelry, hats and accessories. Craig and I attempted to convince them to eat the cucumber sandwiches but they only wanted the tea cakes and cookies…and not the mint tea either (which was delicious!). We made it through the entire event without cracking any fancy teacups; a win in itself!


The girls all had time to chat with Mrs. Clause, opting to go up there without mom or dad and have a nice conversation. I managed to overhear the request they wanted delivered to Santa, for fancy fans in their colors. Luckily this was early enough to order before Christmas, and they definitely noticed their request was accepted on Christmas morning.
Other December highlights include their winter gymnastic show, evening dance show, and school Christmas concert. Craig and I misunderstood our participation in the gymnastic show and received some angry looks from our tiny humans when we showed up late, but luckily their teachers ran through their routines afterwards so we could see their new skills. All three continue to improve, but I am still pretty sure they do cartwheels just as well as I do (and that’s not really a compliment!). The winter dance show is just an evening in the studio, watching all the classes do their routines. All three (and me as well) dry coughed throughout the entire thing and both their routines, but we made it through (I ate half a bag of cough drops, but we made it!).



Their Christmas concert was fantastic, and I enjoyed another bag of cough drops to sit through it- well worth it! Everyone wore matching dresses again this year, dresses not purchased at Costco like in years past for half the school. All three participated great, and finished up the show with the usual silly faces and Emerie’s kissy lips and tongue sticking out. This is one of my favorite events of the year, and all three did great! By the end of the evening everyone was happy but maybe a little overstimulated, and our smiling family photo was more realistically a half smiling Emerie, ready to go home and put pajamas on in peace!
Speaking of that and not to be overlooked, this winter a refocus on kindness and being kind to each other is a daily conversation. Age seven crossed into a new development stage with three growing girls that can be the kindest, sweetest human beings on the planet when they want to be…and then flip a switch and be an angry, sassy, foot stomping and irrational rage machine. The three can be the best of friends, and then turn on one another in an instant. I’m sure that isn’t news to anyone who is raising children, but it certainly dominates the mood in the house upon occasion, and Craig and I are trying to re-enforce that being kind and speaking kindly is important, and any other way is not acceptable. It seems like a never ending rotation these days, but I hope there might be an end in sight before the pre-teen years are upon us. I guess we shall see, one way or the other.
We are also beginning to see when other kiddos want to play with a certain sister, and then start to exclude. This isn’t all the time, but definitely more noticeable now than a year ago, and it directly correlates to hurt feelings and those unkind words I just wrote about! Over Christmas break the girls spent a lot of time together, more than normal without school days, family visiting, and the cold outbreak, and some hours each kiddo is exiled to a completely separate floor of the house to reset and get a break from sisters. They are also starting to ask us to make iPad phone calls to a small group of friends, and it is so fun to quietly listen in the background to their conversations. Reagan is the most excited by this, and will do crafts “on the phone” with one of her friends, talking up until dinner time. Harper and Emerie are most inclined to call grandparents, but friends are likely right around the corner.
This year the girls worked hard on their Santa requests and we encouraged them to write everything down multiple times. When we visited Santa at Cabelas, they handed them over nicely and then tried to explain them. Santa might have handed those back to me when we were done, inconspicuously of course. We are in a really fun age where they can articulate what they want, and typically written in their own creative spelling. I might like that part the very most! Many evening discussions centered around how to spell something, or what the word they want to write was. For example, Harper badly wanted a Sophia the First amulet, but struggled to figure out that word and it took a bit for us to figure out what she was trying to say. Variations of amulet were on all lists, and she was thrilled when that showed up Christmas morning, and in pink instead of purple! Other requests were harder to obtain, and of course Santa doesn’t buy everything on a list, only one or two things that he think are okay, and the girls accepted this theory. Almost nothing this year was in triplicate, other than buying something similar but in their separate colors, or for the stocking stuffers.

Christmas morning itself was the usual loud, exciting chaos. Preparations the night before were smoother than in past years, as I wrapped the majority of presents throughout the month of December and before Christmas break began. The girls notice more details now in years past, so to ensure the magic of Christmas fun lasted another year, I made sure to only wrap Santa’s presents in specific wrapping paper, and ones from mom and dad or grandparents in something else. The bigger parental conundrum was finding places to hide the wrappings; places tiny hands and eye wouldn’t find them, in a house that needs more closets!!! In years past the master closet behind clothes worked wonders, but more recently everyone likes to randomly destroy my organized closet and emerge from the bedroom fully decked out and looking just like mom!
Yes, we all wore matching pajamas this year, and no, I’m not remotely ashamed about it. In fact, I believe half of Anchorage wore the exact same set, after looking at Facebook that morning. It is also semi breaking my sanity that the 10/12 snug fit cuts aren’t even big on them anymore. WHY!?!





Christmas morning is mostly a blur, with excited kiddos destroying the perfectly clean and organized living room as soon as their eyes opened. I only wrote a few notes, but worth observing the girliness of the Christmas requests this year is not unnoticed by me. It’s wonderful they are still in the magical, girly phase of childhood and I hope it lasts a little longer; especially since we are starting to outgrow all the cute little girls dresses and magical dress up montages. Everyone did ask Santa for fancy fans, K-Pop Demon Hunter dresses, and Sofia the First pendants, and Santa delivered! A few toys and Lego sets, like a panda enclosure, were opened and built by the middle of the day, Craig flew the light up drone in the living room (to the chagrin of the poor cats and delight to the children) and we rounded out the evening opening gifts with cousin and enjoying a fancy….Chinese dinner. Aunt Jenny’s long, pink, purple, and teal dresses are still a favorite in the dead of winter, and are worn on repeat during playtime.

The last Santa related gift of the day was a rhyming note hidden in the Christmas tree, which I forgot about until closer to lunch time, when Reagan discovered it and ran upstairs (per its instructions) to discover the three princess dresses hanging in the hall closet. She excitedly brought her sisters into it and then all were dressed as Princess Aurora (one in pink and one in her blue butterfly dress from Maleficent), and another version of Elsa for Emerie.
I would say Merry Christmas…but since it’s February…we will just say the holiday spirit lasts all winter, and gets us through to spring!
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