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Vacation Part III: Epcot & the Beach!

Day two at Disney kicked off with another surprise thanks to Craig, taking his role as a girl dad very seriously and booking a makeover by a local business to transform regular six-year-olds into real princesses! The girls were slow to wake up after such a magical first day, but we managed to convince them to zombie sit on the couch for a little television and breakfast bright and early. Their excitement sparked as soon as the surprise revealed.

On theme, Harper—ahem, I mean, Aurora—was thrilled to style with pink eye shadow and finger nails, plus a fancy updo to complete the look with her beautiful dress. Emerie, fully embracing her new title as Queen Elsa, chose purple eye shadow and nails with an Elsa-inspired twist braid and lower curls. And Reagan, sticking with her alliance to Princess Jasmine, rocked gold and teal eye shadow, teal nails, and a bubble braid updo. The stylist assured us all the hairstyles would survive the long day and the Florida humidity—and they did!

To top it all off, each princess sported bright red lipstick that also lasted the day, along with a healthy spritz of hair glitter (twice, on request!) and a sparkly crown comb. The crowns gleamed in the sun all day—well, except for Emerie’s, who later declared the crown was ruining her life and dramatically yanked it out, but luckily her hairstyle held up! Meanwhile, Harper and Reagan would have slept in their crowns if allowed.

It was a really fun experience and I was impressed with how quickly three incredibly sleepy kids transformed into ready to perform princesses. They even humored me and gave me Anna braids, so my hair was fancy and out of the way for the heat filled day. Everyone insisted on a photo op outside before we left – but carefully away from any impending alligators (according to the girls)- I mean honestly, is that not the cutest picture you’ve ever seen??

Outfits were changed for a second time before 9 AM, with Craig and I insisting dress up dresses would be uncomfortable through a day of walking and direct heat. With that in mind, I packed cotton twirly dresses with same theme of course, that were light weight and soft enough to handle all the activities. And then were were off for the day! While Magic Kingdom definitely took the trophy for the best park of our stay and one of the best adventure days in the past six years, Epcot still offered some memorable moments—despite not having much in the way of rides for younger kids. Epcot focused more on food, beverages, and shopping from around the world, catering more toward older kids and adults. However, the primary reason for our visit was a must: two out of three favorite princesses only make appearances at Epcot, so the choice was made for us.

And when it came time to meet those princesses, whether waiting in line talking to other families or with said princesses, the girls’ excitement was contagious. Harper nearly burst with joy meeting Aurora while Reagan was thrilled for a second Jasmine sighting and in a slightly different outfit. Emerie asked about a million times when we would see Elsa in her frozen wonderland and was undoubtedly in awe when she came into view.

This park entrance was within walking distance from parking, which greatly simplified everything. We wandered through Alice in Wonderland, briefly seeing her walk by but refusing to stop (she claimed to be on break!) and then waited in France until Princess Aurora made her appearance, walking through the gift shops and grabbing tasty treats to try. Harper’s wait was limited and before long Sleeping Beauty walked over.

We were second in line, which was outside again so thankfully still morning temperatures (still hot for us whiny northerners but not 2 PM hot!). As she sauntered up, all three girls squealed with excitement and commented on her dress. The spot was beautiful with the gazebo for shade and a treed backdrop. In no rush, she took the time to answer everyone’s questions and inquiries, giving each kiddo a little bit of individual attention, and hugs to all. Harper was beyond thrilled and talked about that ten minutes for the rest of the trip; and honestly, this is one of the best photos of the visit! With no Disney photo pass option, I took a ton of photos and ensured everyone had a solo or hug photo too. Out of all the princess, she was by far one of the best, in style, humor, and willingness to slow things down and give the girls a great interaction.

We wandered around the area a little longer and determined the landing spot for Beauty and the Beast’s Belle, since we didn’t spot her at Magic Kingdom during dinner the night before. Everyone was heating up waiting in direct sun, but making friends with other excited kiddos waiting too. The enthusiasm for Belle wasn’t the level of other viewings, but the girls still happily took a photo with her and scrutinized why she was dressed in everyday blue and not her famous, yellow gown. After a momentary chat in the shade, we were off to the next country, for a second sighting of Jasmine under the cover of glorious air conditioning! Her line was short, but long enough to admire the intricate walls and decor and the golden lamp. I do have to note, the lines were FAR smaller than the prior day’s park, likely because Magic Kingdom is larger and more focused on the child experience; so that was definitely appreciated. And I’m still a little disappointed we were unable to catch Alice, Snow White or Mulan for meet and greets. As Emerie always says, Alice is daddy’s favorite!

Each country hosted a small coloring station with specific characters to beautify, one of the only real kid focused activities. We found most spots and the girls happily sat down and colored with Grandma Sue while Craig and I wandered through a shop or two for souvenirs or goodies to try. We found a few fun Christmas presents, like fans with their names written in Japanese in the Japan store and princess ornaments. Wishes were made in more wishing wells like at Snow White’s well in Germany, many photo ops stops occurred all along the way and a few more “magic” induced ones by the Disney folks, and a long stop at a huge area with mini trains running through the “village,” with a pathway through it so the kiddos could view details up close. Lastly was a brief stop in China to look at a gift shop filled with panda things, like a panda umbrella that Reagan excitedly begged for (and made it home with us and is already damaged!).

After a morning of when do we see Elsa inquiries from our littlest, we blew through the country of China to arrive in northern Europe- a spot I hoped for indoor air condition to keep with the cold movie theme. The girls first wandered through the themed gift shop, Emerie taking stock of everything Elsa related and to get her long awaited doll (which she looked for at every princess related shop to no avail). Waiting in the princess line felt like stepping right into the Kingdom of Arendelle—it may have been the longest line of the day, but the detail made up for it. Inside was cozy like being in a cold place, the walls were adorned with family portraits of the sisters, and the dining table was set with Nordic flair. The girls were thrilled to explore all of it, giggling and wiggling with excitement as they spotted all the hidden Frozen details. By the time we reached the end, it felt less like a wait and more like a walking through part of the movie set with Elsa and Anna!

Anna was up first and they humored her existence, all the while wanting to get to the real prize of the day, Elsa. I’m guessing this is quite a common response. I’m surprised Emerie didn’t clobber anyone in her path and run straight into Elsa’s arms -the shyness and or utter awe held her back a little- and everyone did a quick Anna photo before pestering excited questions to Elsa. Emerie is convinced that Elsa promised to add her picture to her dress. I’m unsure what was actually said here, other than she’s repeated that sentiment a number of times since then, like it’s the most exciting news of her life! Just as the interaction started a light bulb in the ceiling exploded with a bang, so loud it could’ve been a plot twist in Frozen 3 (hahaha). Everyone in the room jumped but the moment was far from ruined. The automatic Disney camera captured the moment perfectly: Emerie and Harper’s faces frozen (pun intended!) in horror, while Reagan was mid-turn toward Elsa. Trying to lighten the mood, I joked that Elsa must’ve been behind it; without missing a beat she replied with a perfectly straight face, I didn’t do that. After many more questions and excitement we left the throne room and to a nice, Frozen themed photo op that produced two of my favorite photos of the whole visit. A little Disney magic added to Emerie cute reaction to “pretend there’s something on your hand” and a great family photo.

With the final, required stop of the park complete, that equaled a stop for ice cream. The girls spotted Kristof across the way, but we were informed his time was up so we couldn’t join the line to say hello. Instead everyone devoured a rapidly melting treat and took in the landscape of the area. We wrapped up Epcot at this point, with the girls begging to go to the pool again to cool off. Since other princesses weren’t out for a while, we opted to sail through the last half of the park and head back to the condo to relax. This was a good call and mostly avoided the overheated, sun filled tiny humans from melting down in the middle of the trek to the car.

Swimsuits and princess hair!

On the way to dinner, which might I add took eternity to drive only THREE miles from the condo (this seems to be a theme in Florida), we swung into a nearby outlet mall. Craig found shorts he was looking for and Sue, the girls and I wandered into an unknown (to us) shoe store, leaving with three pairs of pink flats and a couple pairs of AMAZING sandals for me that, you know, won’t be worn until next summer. Dinner at an Italian restaurant with great service and food, the girls colored and chilled from the busy day, doing great for how late we finished eating.

But did the day end there, after 12+ hours of fun activity?! Of course not. The day we arrived in Florida, Reagan started complaining about ear pain. A little Tylenol resolved it for the moment and thank goodness, with big park days ahead! But the next evening, Harper was having similar ear pain, enough to trigger a check up prior to our upcoming flight. Craig found a 24-hour urgent care not far from our dinner spot, so we headed there pretty late in the evening, with the plan to check all three pairs of ears to rule everything out.

The girls kept entertained coloring and watching a movie in the waiting room, and soon we were back in the exam room. The nurse was a good sport and answered an interrogation of favorite princesses -or LEAST favorite princess as the questions morphed into- before convincing the girls to respond to questions for the reason of the visit. By the end of the two and a half-hour visit, two ear infections were confirmed and Reagan’s freshly flushed out and releasing a massive chunk of wax to show for it! By the end, Harper and Emerie were sound asleep in the car with Sue, no amount of convincing kept them conscious, and Reagan out cold by the time the car was on the road.

It was a long night, but the staff was incredible, and the best part? No pharmacy run in an unfamiliar city! Unlike back home, the doctor prescribed and mixed the medication right there, so we were out the door and on our way with one less stop. Now THAT is what I call a day, and a good one at that. With one more day to cram activity into, everyone instantly went back to sleep in their beds, refreshing for one more day of adventure before heading home.

Orlando Day III: Beach Time!

We opted out of any Disney parks for our last vacation day, knowing it was too close to pass up the opportunity to visit a “real” beach, and that the experience would be worth it. The beach is also less expensive (i.e. free) than Disney extravagance and much needed after the prior two days spending (but also not the point!). The day started out slower, with no fancy makeovers or rushing to get there, and eventually we headed an hour or so east to Satellite Beach. At one point on the drive the dashboard map froze and required rerouting, but otherwise was mostly uneventful, with kiddos coloring and drawing in the back and discussing the events of the past few days.

Thanks to a friend from college who shared fantastic advice and directions to the best spot to visit (it was wonderful to see her and catch up!), we enjoyed an incredible afternoon. The beach was nearly empty, with just a few other people passing by in the middle of the day. The weather was perfect—sunny and in the 80s, which says a lot coming from someone like me who typically hates the heat—the breeze off the incoming tide kept us cool.

The girls were instantly excited to explore the waves, though a bit hesitant at first. They were all determined to stand in the surf and see if they could stay upright (holding the hand of an adult!), and it was adorable to watch their reactions and bliss when realizing the water was warm. Before long everyone was discovering shells—so many, and so different from the ones back home. It was wonderful watching them become completely captivated by the waves and their new collections.

After Emerie had her fill standing in the big waves with Craig, which were increasing in size as time passed, she discovered several Ariel necklace shells and wandered down the beach to find more, just like we do at home. She was the only one to find those spirals and even the adults were impressed at the discoveries. Harper was harder to track down, her enthusiasm lying with jumping and sitting in the waves and running all over the place. When Reagan had her fill of the waves, she walked along the beach with me, looking for specific shells in different colors. I was quite impressed by the variation in shells compared to those on Alaska’s beaches. However, I suppose it makes sense when you think about it—after all we are literally a world apart, with entirely different ecosystems and oceans shaping the shorelines, and Florida is definitely a lot more tropical.

Burying one another in sand was also a required activity, which is very different up north where it’s VERY cold! It was such a fun afternoon, no one sunburned (and I wore my t-shirt to keep that true!), we left with tons of fancy shells to use for crafts back home, and all three begged to stay longer. If we could do it again, I would have stayed another day to go enjoy a second visit.

After physically removing the children from the sand, with a much higher tide at this point, the only consolation that actually maneuvered everyone into the car was the promise of ice cream down the street to cool off. Such a cool spot, called the Surfin’ Turtle, where you could enjoy ice cream or soft serve in the presence of real turtle rescues. This family-owned business was friendly, fast, and Emerie was in heaven getting a treat with her favorite animal wandering around behind her. Definitely a spot worth visiting again!!

We wandered to a few more shopping spots in the area and another outlet mall. Hilarious shopping surprise of the trip? I never realized the store Five Below indicates below five dollars. This northerner assumed that meant another winter clothing store, not befitting for the south at all, and referring to five DEGREES (like the 32 Degrees brand), and I chuckle at how wrong that was. Our last store of the trip, the girls were thrilled to look at all the exciting stuff, and several stocking stuffers were secretly purchased.

It was another long day and jam packed with exploration to make the most of the end of our trip. The only real hiccup was the ridiculous traffic on the way home, bumper to bumper taking more than an hour to go five or six miles. Other than the fact that Alaska appears to have a better ITS traffic system than more populated southern states, it was a fabulous day. The evening ended with a packing frenzy to get all purchases shoved into suitcases and totes, and a quick jog to the nearby Walmart, which was “Alaska Black Friday busy” at 10:30 at night on a Friday. I’ve never seen half the checkouts open at any store in Anchorage, and every single one was open and with a line. Hilarious, indeed.

Heading Home: Travel Day

After purchasing additional suitcases in Cincinnati and Walmart totes in Orlando, we definitely left our vacation heavier than we started it. In our (my?) defense, we found amazing bargains too good to pass up, and my out-of-state shopping was overdue by a solid six years. The outlet malls did us quite a solid, and I don’t even want to share how many pairs of discount shoes returned with us, but it was well worth it! From the light-up wands from Disney on Ice and hand-painted parasols from Magic Kingdom to the oversized light-up goblets from Belle’s ballroom dinner, our packed bags were both eclectic and memorable. And yes, there were also three bags of massive pine cones, a bag of authentic, unwashed seashells and a little sand for good measure, and plenty of other store-bought treasures. The next morning at a balmy 4 AM, we barely—and I mean barely—managed to fit everything into the car. After an impressive round of Tetris-style packing, we loaded three very sleepy girls to trek to the airport and return the rental.

Knowing Orlando International is a lot larger than Anchorage or Cincinnati’s airports, we arrived in just enough time to return the car, score luggage carts to the terminal and onto the train -that many suitcases and three booster seats is a full body workout, even with three adults- check in, route through a long TSA line, and find the correct boarding gate. The highlight—the blog-worthy part—of that three-hour saga? Not one, but two kids puking in the never-ending, winding TSA line. And no, I couldn’t make this up if I tried. It was hot—unbearably so for everyone—whether from the lack of air circulation, the crush of people, or my brilliant choice to dress the kids in three-quarter sleeve dresses and pants in preparation for the colder weather up north. Or maybe it was just the sheer length of time we stood there, inching forward at a glacial pace, looking at other locals in hoodies and sweatpants, and questioning their survival choices! Who knows, but the result? Vomit in front of a lot of people; a different spectacle from the usual oh you have triplets? comments.

Harper, to her credit, managed to give us the classic heads up just in time for full-on mom (and grandma) mode. Cue me frantically dumping out a plastic bag from my backpack to improvise a puke bucket, rerouting her to a nearby trash can mid-eruption. Crisis averted, or so I thought. As we’re catching our breath and trying to regain some dignity amongst strangers (who did NOT offer to help but at least didn’t laugh) —all while still stuck in that damn line—Reagan suddenly spins around and projectile vomits all over the floor. And yes, at this point we were almost to the front of the line.

It’s safe to say this was a TSA experience for the books. After Reagan joining Harper’s puke parade, another TSA agent appeared and swiftly blocked the line behind us with a rope—presumably to protect everyone else from an unfortunate slip-and-slide situation brought to you by the Douglets. Honestly, I’ve never felt more complimented in my entire traveling life (I said what I said!). I mean, how many people can say they’ve had a TSA line shut down in their honor? You? It’s not every day a federal agent takes such action and I was ready to roll with it….that, and then we finally made it to the front of the line!

Miraculously, we didn’t miss our flight and—praise the travel gods—without any more vomit-related disasters. As we were boarding Emerie, ever the sane child, looked at me and proudly declared, well, at least I didn’t puke too. You know what? She’s not wrong. And that sums up my life in a nutshell…small victories, folks, small victories.

Fortunately, the rest of the travel day was calmer; if anything almost enjoyable. Our 6.5 hour flight to SeaTac shortened with a tail wind, and that repeated and shied off an hour of the Anchorage leg. Very minimal turbulence and sunny skies and other than the basic bickering, everyone in our group was completely chill. Only hiccup was a random passenger across the aisle deciding it was his duty to suggest I mask Reagan, who developed a mild, throaty cough the night before. It was clearly aggravated by the dry, air-conditioned and freezing cold cabin, but she had no fever or other symptoms. His tone was, let’s just say insulting, and when I politely declined, he turned to his wife with a dramatic, well, at least I tried and complete with an eye roll. Other than the darting glares from that direction for the next four hours, and the scenario replay of a better response to it than my “um, no” answer him, all was well.

It is good to be home and comical it took me a month to fully write out this adventure. It was a wild 15 days and went by quicker than expected. The girls adapted smoothly to each transition and better than younger years would have, all the different states and hotels we visited (Ohio, Kentucky, Tennessee, Georgia, and Florida = making up for no prior out-of-state trips!), and all the new venues and people. I didn’t get a single demand from Emerie to go home, something she requests a lot when we are out and about in Anchorage, because home is her happy place, as is mine. By the end Harper was asking to stop going shopping, which was fair. Returning home after a long but wonderful trip was a mix of relief and travel exhaustion. The familiar surroundings of home, normal cool temperatures, your own bed and snuggly kittens, the girl’s toys and stuffies, and the chance to finally decompress- it was definitely worth it.

And mother nature was kind enough to wait 36 hours before dropping the first real 6+ inches of snow for the winter, and then back to the usual grind. First big vacation is officially a success!

❤

Exploring the Outdoors

The past month and ending to summer flew by. As we enter my favorite season of the year, where the leaves turn to vibrant yellows, oranges, and reds, the air turns crispy- like the perfect bite of an apple- and the blue skies are crystal clear, we plan to spend as much time outside as humanly possible before winter arrives. Whether it’s hiking through trees that look like they’re painted in watercolor or simply breathing in the cool, fresh air on the back deck, there’s something magical about embracing the beauty of our home state this time of year.

On an impromptu weekend trip down to Seward, we caught a perfectly sunny and calm day to play along the beach, collecting shells, fancy rocks and sea glass. We played at the park, tested out the local gelato, and enjoyed dinner at one of the local restaurants with friends. The airbnb for the night boasted a large, kid friendly outdoor area, so smores and bike rides were a must. None of the old bikes had training wheels, so the girls essentially taught themselves to ride around the big, gravel parking lot without any assistance, in a matter of about fifteen minutes.

We’ve definitely slacked this summer on the bike riding, and taking the time to become comfortable riding without the training assist. It is not easy trying to help all three at once, or even two at once with both parents- you are constantly hopping from one kid to the next, trying to keep the collisions and frustrations to a minimum and certainly a reason for the lack of progression in this area to date. Managing three at once is like a mix of running from one wobbly bike to the next while offering words of encouragement, untangling the occasional crash or wobble over and corresponding raging kid, and celebrating each triumphant moment with cheers. The thrill of watching them gain confidence and balance all at once is also a great feeling—though by the end of the moment, you’ve likely run a mini marathon, and probably need to find some bandaids!

Within a few minutes Reagan was circling the driveway, keeping her pace and confidence up across the dips and bumps, and Harper followed soon after. Emerie attempted a bit slower and more timidly than her sisters, but also caught on quickly until she tumbled and scraped up her hand. There are perks to all three learning so many skills at the same time (not just parental cardio!), because if the first kid can do it, confidence is boosted for the other two. That, and a little friendly competition.

Back at home in the following weeks, Craig removed the extra wheels from two of the three pedal bikes, and so far Harper and Reagan keep the momentum going, literally! They are improving at pushing off unassisted and not always asking for help. Emerie insists on training wheels, even after rocking it down in Seward, and we aren’t fighting it until she gets more confident. I wonder if her bifocal plays into some of her hesitation; that can’t be easy to balance with. We are taking short walks more frequently in the evening, both to wear them out and to let them practice. The discovery of downhill acceleration was quite a highlight one night too, and now we have are defined direction to go each time.

In addition to muscle powered machines, we tested out the new motor track by our house one sunny morning. It took several clear articulations to convince them going through the puddles and mud purposefully was okay, and even then they still hesitated. Everyone is also a bit timid to tackle big hills and splash through puddles, which meant the parents (ahem…Craig) had quite the unexpected cardio workout. Every time the terrain looked a little too daunting, an adult needed to run over to give a push, give them more throttle up a slope, or coax the wheels out of a mud puddle. After unsticking kids multiple times, we found they were far more excited to ride loops in the wet grass with their friends, over and over again, than test out the muddy hills. Sassy Emerie emerged as she constantly hollered at Oliver, you can’t catch me! He looked at her perplexed that they were even racing, which was pretty cute, and she found it hilarious. Harper rode the loop over and over again, and didn’t want to stop until she was wet up to her shoulders; Reagan enjoyed the loops and then wandered over to the playground equipment while her sisters continued to circle.

Another end of summer event greatly enjoyed by our household is the annual Trick or Treat in the Heat. This event occurs well before the normal Halloween and gives local kids the chance to participate while it’s less frigid and dark outside. The meaning behind the event is much more significant than just having fun, and relates to a young boy more than a decade ago who lost his fight to cancer, but not before his neighborhood came together and gave him an amazing September trick-or-treat experience. The even now fundraises thousands of dollars for cancer research and the Ronald McDonald house, which is really cool. This year we went all in on a family theme, with a “big” and “small” trio of Sanderson sisters from Hocus Pocus. Harper insisted a witch was her pick this year, which nicely supported the idea. Emerie was displeased that she couldn’t be Elsa for the 6th year in a row.

We watched the original Hocus Pocus movie for the first time, with hesitation at the beginning and investment by the middle, and Craig spun up the enthusiasm by endorsing one of the sisters himself, and convincing Cousin Tyler to do the same. One of the best parts of the entire evening? Watching people walking opposite as us smile sweetly upon seeing the girls all matched in their dresses and wigs, then seeing their eyes level with Craig’s fully gowned awesomeness, and bursting into a big chuckle. I probably witnessed that at least a dozen times, with many kudos from other dads.

The rain held off for the evening and it remained warm enough to leave coats in the car. Reagan called me her twin all night in our matching outfits, Emerie finally accepted being the bossy one was okay only because Craig was too, and Harper had the need for speed and kept trying to get ahead of the group for the best pick of candy. That might also relate to all the empty candy wrappers in her bag…

One other fun fall evening this week- we finally took the girls up to Flat Top for a hike around the base of the mountain, something we haven’t actually done with them before. There were many hollers of I can see EVERYTHING from up here and wow we are so high; and the occasional demand to know where our house and Miss Tawni’s house were below. The adventure started out sunny and warm, but ended in clouds and a brisk wind; thank goodness we brought hoodies with us. The girls scrambled up the hilly parts full of energy; apparently we should have proceeded further up the mountain, because they were still energetic on the return home. All three carried Ziploc baggies and filled them with treasures- you know, berries you can’t eat, colorful leaves, twigs, you name it. The discovery of edible Alaskan blueberries resulted in a few blue fingers and requests to go berry picking another day, something we haven’t actually done this year.

It is nice to get out and about and share a love of nature as a family. After a stressful month at work for both Craig and myself, getting out and releasing that stress is really helpful for our sanity, as a parent, a triplet parent, and a full time employee. Fall has arrived and that means more hikes, festivals, and enjoying the last month of warmth before the cold and all the beauty that comes with it returns for the year.

❤

Going with the Flow

It’s been a while since a randomly chaotic, yet hysterical event occurred in the Douglets household. I’m here to inform you that we had a brief stint of that very thing tonight, and of course while Craig is running an errand. Did it involve any kind of mortar? Thankfully no. Was it poop related? Well of course it was…

After dinner, I productively tackled the load of laundry that had been calling my name from the living room like it had more important business from the day. All three little ladies were deep in their evening ritual of royal chaos— their princess tea parties in full swing, complete with grand proclamations of announcing princes blah blah blah echoing from the stairway. Dance costumes and dress-up heels were the attire of choice, obviously, as they zoomed between pretend thrones and imaginary ballrooms. Just another typical evening surrounded by three pint-sized queens ruling their kingdom of glitter, giggles, and chaos.

I hear a scream upstairs, and the other two go running to see what Emerie is hollering about. Traditionally it’s something like I saw a spider or look at my beautiful fort! but this team meeting ended with three heads popping around the bathroom corner and sailing down the hallway, all screaming.

Since that got my attention, I ventured upstairs to find an impromptu inch- deep, indoor swimming pool in my bathroom, accompanied by three screaming children, and it still coming. After shutting off both the water and my ear drums, Emerie informed me with disgust that this occurred while still sitting on said pot, and everyone hovered as I frantically grabbed towels. Four of us in a tiny bathroom filled with water is a little tight, so my demands for everyone to go away were following by a flurry of artistic ambition (hilariously), all insistent that No Entry and Stop signs display on the door. After all, we wouldn’t want and unsuspecting visitors wandering into our new water park.

Note the sign. The outside one says “Flooded”

As I’m mopped up the bathroom floor, with the river thankfully changed to a lake, I realize it’s the first time in six years as a parent that this has happened to me. I am going to say that is pretty good -I’m certain it would have been sooner if we had boys- and everything was alright until I looked at the remains that caused the overflow (barf) and the incredibly amount of toilet tissue. This summer the girls appear to be on a mission to singlehandedly restart the COVID toilet paper shortage, on bathroom stop at a time.

By the time I emerged from the cleanup, and a still clogged toilet that needed Craig’s muscle to release, Stop signs were up and I heard the front door shut, assuming it was Craig getting home. In reality, Harper and Reagan went outside after their emergency six-year-olds summit to debate who caused the great disaster. The mission? To stand guard in case Dad gets home. We don’t want him to see it!!

Generally I would feel a mix of exasperation, amusement, and mild defeat in these moments—always wondering how something so chaotic could unfold in such a short time. But then again, at least it wasn’t mortar, and no real harm was done! Emerie summed up the experience pretty concisely with her well that’s so weird. I am happy to report all has been resolved, the plumbing de-pooped and tissued by Dad, and we will keep going with the flow (get it???).

Yep, kids are fun. I’m going to go wash my hands again.

And that’s a wrap!

What a whirlwind few weeks! The girls made it through their first year of elementary school and are already excited to claim first grade. While displeased that beloved Miss Tawni won’t teach them next year (since they assumed she moved up every year haha), they also contain excitement for Miss Kelly, who is just a couple doors down the hall. Looking at comparison pictures from day one to the final day, you can see how much everyone grew, not just in height!

Kindergarten is always a significant milestone of achievement. Kids start as preschoolers, becoming comfortable out in the “world” and leave the grade as elementary schoolers, with boosted confidence, better social skills and vocabularies, and understanding new concepts for math, reading and writing. I won’t claim that my kids are the smartest, most accomplished, doing amazing at all intellectual challenges thrown at them kids; I will say they are all on track, working hard to learn new skills, asking questions about everything, and greatly advancing from day one. And that is all we can really ask for, making sure to support the growth and challenges and make the time to help them achieve milestones and grow up happy, healthy and supported.

The girls with bestie Nichole.

Is it hard to do with three at the same level of development? Yes! It is hard, and I often get in my own head about how we should be better, do more things, read more at night, have less screen time; all the typically mom (and dad) stresses that we all face. But I also must remember they love and spend SO much time coloring and drawing, sitting with puzzles, making up playtime stories and games, discussing the day’s events in bed at night, cooking all the things, and so many other skills they didn’t possess two years ago. It is wonderful to watch and new things are added to the list every day. We could certainly do more, but are also doing so much at the same time.

Family photo ❤
With Grandma Sue
With Daddy

The girls’ school didn’t do an official kindergarten graduation, but their home school gave us the option! So of course, I couldn’t resist ordering caps and gowns and participating in such a wonderful event, just for the pictures. The week before we did a home school run craft and everyone “stickered” their caps (Reagan found ALL the panda ones, Emerie found all the turtles with Reagan’s assistance, and Harper was sad at no seals but found a lot of other fun ones), they painted a pot for a sunflower seed, and made a hand print. All three had a quick questionnaire away from the parents and each other’s ears, in which all three still answered we have no pets, which cracked me up since we literally have cats and chickens (and now a puppy!). They are such funny responses I have to copy them for sincerity, and share the corresponding photo taken with the silly glasses. Boy, how alike do they look with those expressions, and the matching shirt doesn’t help!

  • Harper was born March 20th in Anchorage, Alaska. She currently lives with Mama, Dada, Reagan and Emerie. As for pets, Harper shared they do not have any, but one day hopes to have a pet seal. When she is not writing, she enjoys eating chocolate ice cream, planting flowers, finding treasures and dancing. Harper dreams of being a ballerina queen when she grows up and wants to have SIX children while living in a pink house.
  • Emerie was born March 20th in Anchorage, Alaska. She lives with Mama, Dada, Harper and Reagan and does not have any pets. When Emerie is not writing, she enjoys planting seeds to turn into flowers. One day Emerie hopes to live in the Disney Castle as Queen Elsa Ballerina, with her three children.
  • Reagan was born March 20th in Anchorage, Alaska. She lives with Harper, Emerie, Mom and Dad and does not have any pets. Coloring, playing with stuffies, dancing and snuggling in bed are things Reagan enjoys when she is not writing. She dreams of one day being an artist in Seward, Alaska (very specific!). When asked about future children, Reagan shouted, “I don’t want any kids!”

On graduation day, the girls were uncertain why they had to wear loose gowns and weird caps, but went along with their crazy mother and were good sports about it. Grandma Sue and Miss Tawni were able to attend and join in the fun, and the sun came out just for that day, so their name calling ceremony wasn’t rushed and miserable. Everyone lined up and was called down one by one to accept their gift bag. They stood behind their name stars calmly until the last name was called. All in all, I might have had a bit of a lump in my throat; it’s tough hitting these milestones only once, and knowing that is the only time we will experience it, even when it’s three fold!

As for my little graduates, I couldn’t be more proud of how much they’ve grown and thrived during their first year of elementary school. I genuinely love that we know the teachers, the school and where they spend their days…because the world is a scary place! This milestone is a testament to their hard work, curiosity, and resilience. Each of them has learned so much and shown remarkable progress in their own unique ways. From mastering the basics of reading and writing to developing a keen interest in science and art, their journey is nothing short of inspiring. They’ve made new friends, discovered new passions, and faced challenges with courage and determination. It’s incredible to see how they’ve adapted to the structured classroom life, embraced the excitement of learning, and found joy in their accomplishments. Here are a few specific achievements and areas where each truly shined:

Harper recently started drawing and writing “lists” more than prior months, checking things off as they occur. I’m not entirely sure which school subject she is drawn to -it might be PE or dance related things- she also really likes to color and is getting pretty good at it. She sits and focuses on craft creations much longer than in the past, and thrived learning her dance routines this year. Harper is still working on a couple of her letter sounds and continues to try to figure out the answers when she doesn’t know them.

Emerie trends toward a joy in math and is often sitting in the back of the car, reciting her numbers and seeing how high she can count. She will scold her sisters if they interrupt her concentration, especially once she gets past one hundred. At home we will often find her listening to a story Tonie by herself in her bedroom, completely content, or thumbing through a book and looking at pictures. I think she will be our bookworm and she loves doing the reading application on the iPad. She also enjoys coloring more than prior years and brings her own style to her creations. If she is shocked or frustrated, you will hear her announce “oh biscuits!”

Reagan has definitely excelled on her handwriting, letter comprehension and freehand drawing. She will likely be our writer and is always willing to assist a sister on writing a letter or depicting the correct sound. She loves to draw and color everything, something consistent throughout her preschool years. She is the closest to reading comprehension and the connection between the sounds into words; she is at the brink of figuring it all out! While English class is probably her favored subject, she also continues to love to sing; albeit a bit shyer than her sisters. At home she is always humming and singing different tunes, or ones she invents herself.

I also have to highlight the improved handwriting. Personally I prefer the “loop de loops” that emerged from their very early years, but since that can’t last forever, I will accept the accurately scribed letters going forward. This image shows week one of kindergarten to the last week of school; showing their quarterly progress.

Toward the end of the school year I began a mental debate on how to proceed into first grade, with all three staying together or splitting one out separately, since only two first grade classes exist. After discussing with Craig, their teacher, and my fellow mom friends, I believe keeping them together is the best option, although maybe splitting them up at separate tables or desks not immediately next to one another might help. I did ask each kiddo if they wanted to split or stay together and received a resounding response to stay together. Another factor that could have helped would be who stayed with bestie Nicole, and if split, the solo kid would HAVE to end up with her, in order to level the playing field.

When considering who to split out solo, the best option scholastically is Reagan, who picks up and learns things so effortlessly, but is also the one that likes being alone the least of the three. Moving to Emerie, if she split out solo, she would instantly feel left out, something that her sisters often do to her during playtime and require coaching on, which would make that dynamic more difficult. Lastly, if Harper were to split out solo, which might prove as a good option since she is headstrong and needs reminders to try to figure something out before demanding help instantly, but she also really likes being around her sisters and included in the group. It seemed like a no win scenario option to me, with a literal third wheel getting excluded from all the activities of the other two, and I’m not ready to face that. Not to mention two different classes would also equal different fields trips and homework, and more parental support on both sides. This all concluded my mind to keep everyone together, as they’ve done since entering preschool at age two and a half, and see how it goes.

As we ease into the summer months, I find myself reflecting on the passage of time and the milestones that come with it. Although this blog isn’t as timely as school year end, it’s a reminder that it’s okay to feel that tightness in my chest at the thought of everyone growing up so quickly and reaching their milestones simultaneously. Transitions to next steps are especially challenging for me, particularly without another little one to follow in tow and stretch out the current parenting phase. While these events are undoubtedly exciting and fun to prepare for and experience, they also bring a mix of stress and sadness. My mom brain feels the weight of these moments, realizing just how far we’ve come in this childhood journey. The days seem to fly by, and it’s a bittersweet reminder of the fleeting nature of these precious years.

Witnessing their enthusiasm for school and the pride in their achievements fills me with profound gratitude and excitement for what the future holds. These early experiences lay the foundation for a lifelong love of learning, and I can’t wait to see where their educational journey will take them next. My heart swells with joy as I celebrate these special moments and look forward to all the wonderful adventures that lie ahead.

Happy Kindergarten graduation ladies, we are so proud of you!

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Performances and Puppies!

After months of inquiries as to when it would happen, the girls attended their spring dance recital earlier this month, for both tap and ballet. After Harper’s solo dance class last spring, Emerie and Reagan begged to join so they could perform on the big stage like Harper. Custom costumes for each routine made for some excited little girls, and the big evening happened on an already big day, the last day of school.

Attending another ballet school’s performance the weekend prior also amped up the excitement. The Alice in Wonderland theme was really fun and everyone dressed up for the occasion, including Papa Cliff! The girls kept saying I looked beautiful -just for wearing a skirt- and all wanted do pose for photos and wear crowns. Craig went all out and did temporary hair color for each kiddo and everyone was ready for an evening downtown.

To our surprise at the girls’ show, Emerie turned out as the crowd pleaser, waving constantly and ensuring she was in the front of the group. Harper attempted to stay close to Miss Jess just like last year; while Reagan was more shy and stayed toward the back, focusing on her footwork. It took a bit to figure out who was who from so far back in the auditorium, and even then I wasn’t completely sure I was right on Harper and Reagan. Doing the same hairstyle and costume and a significant distance equals difficulty!!

The girls were excited for “real” eyeshadow and my eyeliner, and did pretty well to not smear it everywhere. Harper ripped her tights after the first dance and although displeased, thankfully didn’t throw a fit over it. Also unlike last year, Craig didn’t have to carry a screaming, overtired toddler to the car; all three did great after the picture with their teachers and some much needed French fries; bedtime routine was smooth sailing after a long night.

Another fun event that week, arguably the best run kid event ever, was the annual Anchorage Fire Department’s spring open house, at the training station over by the hospital. It was seriously the most fun event, with an immediate stop at the free face painting, a hotdog snd hot chocolate lunch due to the cold temperatures, and tons of activities to try and things to climb on. Don’t forget the bouncy houses and shaved ice!

Everyone climbed in the fire trucks and asked the kind firefighter five thousand questions about all the buttons; I had to pry Reagan away as she kept thinking of new things to ask. Everyone tried drilling concrete (with ear protection of course!), smashing soda cans and crumpling wood piles with the cool power tools. All in all, it was a really well done event, even with the rain! We will definitely return next year.

While Papa Cliff was here for a quick visit, the girls were excited to build the girly Lego sets with him, and we were quickly reminded that building a set with three six year olds at the same time is impossible. Building with two is actually doable. All three definitely demanded turns and they are improving on putting them together.

With summer’s arrival and the ground completely thawed, we finally buried our sweet kitty Rory, who spent the past two months solidly frozen in the garage freezer (unbeknown to the girls!). About two years ago we did this with Rafi and impressively the girls remembered that and knew what to do. Everyone sprinkled rose petals on him from their dance bouquets from Craig and added a million dandelions atop the dirt. It’s never easy to bury a beloved pet, but as death is still a part of our lives, I believe it is good to share the experience and talk about it, and prepare them for something that is not enjoyable, but happens in real life. They did great; Reagan needed some hugs but otherwise all were satisfied decorating his resting spot and asking questions about him in heaven with Rafi. Yes, Emerie still verified that his head was indeed still attached to his body….just in case that changed since she last inquired.

Decorating Rory one last time!

Unrelated to the burial service, Craig convinced me and the girls that adopting a puppy was the logical next step for our household. While this is continuing topic in our lives, he managed to find a super calm, five month old lab mix to bring home to love. The best part…in my opinion? She chews EVERYTHING, so all toys and clothes have to stay off the floor. That’s an instant way to convince kids to clean up after themselves, don’t you think?? The poor little teether is finding all kinds of goodies to enjoy, including our feet, cat toys, real mice, and the handles off bags. Seems like we have another toddler in the house. Just like with Rosie, the girls unanimously agreed with Harper’s first name suggestion, Gemma, and insist she sparkles like a gem or diamond. Insightful, right?

So we ease into summer with an empty, cat less freezer, and a new, sweet pup. If we can potty train three toddlers at once, we should be able to train one pup…I think!

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